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believe-abilities!
Believing in God's promises and your possibilities! 
Issue No. 1 June 2008
In This Issue
Dream Girls
Day Dream Believer
Dream On
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Remember daydreaming as a little girl? As we grow up we sometimes lose the art of thinking about what we want to be or hope to do. In our busy-ness we consider it a waste of time.
 
I've come to believe when we completely let go of dreaming we lose touch with ourselves.
 
Is it a waste of time to connect with who you are?To ponder what you'd still like to see happen in your life? To think about the plans God has for you?
 
I invite you to take a little time now and then...and dream a little dream with me!
 
Joy
 
...be You... 

Dream Girls

We remember them from the movies. They were all glamour, glitz, and grace. We also remember them from school. They were cute, cool, and chosen. We might even see them now...in church. They are spiritual, sophisticated, and sweet.
 
We step on the scale or look in the mirror, our closets, and our souls wishing we were all they are. It's easy to believe a polished exterior equals a put-together peaceful interior. It's as if what we defines them...and what we don't see in us...defines us.
 
We don't want to get too close so our inadequacies are evident...just in their breathing range so we can catch whatever it is these women have - as if it's contagious.
 
We're so focused on how they look we often miss their hearts.
 
I remember watching Princess Diana when she was busy being a "royal." In her pefect clothes, her perfect body, and her princess status it was easy to  miss her eyes silently reflecting her sorrowing soul. I realized the difference when I saw pictures of her holding children who were missing parts because they had stepped on a landmine. In spite of her great sadness for their suffering, I noticed a new beauty - she loved them. Everything about them...she was at home with them. In her passion for them she could see past their severed bodies to their potential as human beings. Because of her pain she could connect more fully with theirs. She saw past their imperfections to their true beauty - she took a peek into their hearts.
 
The God who loves us does the same thing!
 
1 Samuel 16:7b says, "Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
 
If I personalize this I get: Man looks at Joy's outward appearance, but I (the Lord) look at her heart.
 
Now it gets exciting...because I live under His grace...I can add: I look at her forgiven heart.
I believe Psalm 139. We were on God's mind before we were. He dreamed us up. (take a look at Webster's definitions for dream and imagination)
 
We were created by Him to worship Him. As we live our lives for Him...we're God's dreams come true...we're His dream girls!
 
 
 
 

 
 

 
 

...be loved!

John 15:11 & 12
 
 

I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

 

My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.
 

...believe!
Day Dream Believer 
There are many studies on the effect written goals have on the level of success people have in life. For me, there is a committment once I've written something down. I don't need to sign my  name and date it - it's as if I've already made a contract with myself.
 
I haven't succeeded with all these written goals. Some were not part of God's plan for me and others were unreasonable and I'd set myself up for failure at the onset.
 
As I look back, I am surprised how many things I have accomplished! 
 
I just finished a novel written by Debbie Macomber titled: Twenty Wishes. The characters wrote down 20 things they wanted to do. You might think it sounds like a frivilous effort. Perhaps it sounds suspiciously like day dreaming to you. Maybe even like a bit of fluffy fiction. The author shared that the idea for this novel was birthed from a real woman's desire to see her life changed. She made a list. Like the pretend characters, the real-life woman experienced amazing results from her inventory.
 
There is nothing mystical about this and it's not a practice in visualization. This is a practical step toward looking seriously at the desires of your heart and discerning whether they are part of God's plan for you or not. I've done this for years...in fact since I believed in Jesus. I used to sit in my room and dream about the people I wanted to see accept Him too. I pictured differenct scenerios and found myself praying earnestly not about "how" but petitioning God on their behalf to lead them to Him...His way. Most of them have! So I am truly a "day dream believer!" I dreamed about being a wife...an author...a speaker...and I am!
 
In the coming months I'll be sharing one thing from my list of 20 Wishes...please email me and share your too!  joydekok@pitel.net
 
Not all dreams come true...but some do!
 
When you live in God's will and believe His Word...and seek to use your abilities for Him...your life is full of believe-abilities!
 
Sincerely,
 
Joy DeKok
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Go ahead...start dreaming and praying!
 
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